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section 6 de l'article :
Ne pas oublier que le look, ce n'est pas que la gueule ! C'est aussi la taille, la shape, le style vestimentaire, le fait d'avoir des habits qui nous vont bien, d'être propre, etc, etc ...
Looks count, though perhaps not as much as is typically presumed. As was discussed in Section 2, women think MUCH like men when it comes to mating.
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Looks, Effort, and their Interrelation:
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Take a guy who is a –1- in looks (perhaps fat, short, hideous face, balding, old, smelly, poorly dressed, etc.), but a -10- in effort. This guy will STILL land women who are -5.5s- once in while, and –3s- frequently.
To explain, allocate 1 total point for every 2 points on the scale, for what you can get with maximum effort. So, if you are a –10- in looks, but only exert a –1- in effort, you can probably still sex -5.5s- (ie. 11 divided by 2) on occasion, and approximately half of that, or -3s-, whenever you are inclined. Eventually you will arrive at someplace in between your –maximum- capacity and your –easy- capacity for your regular quality of women.
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Example Guy 1:
-1-LOOKS + -10-EFFORT = 11,
THEREFORE,
MAXIMUM CAPACITY = 5.5, EASY CAPACITY = approx. 3
Example Guy 2:
-8-LOOKS + -10-EFFORT = 18,
THEREFORE,
MAXIMUM CAPACITY = 9, EASY CAPACITY = approx. 5
What creates the extra points from effort is that you meet MORE women, so SOME of these women will find even the guy with –1-looks/-10-effort somewhat attractive. Probably the best that he will ever do is a 6 who somehow finds him attractive. Mr –10-looks/-1-effort could go out approaching at a 5.5 in effort and change his whole lot, because he would meet so many more women who would find him attractive, or who have trouble saying no to his advances, but instead he takes the easy ones. His loss.
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De + quand on t'écoute ("il faut être beau gosse", "c'est dur à Paris", ...) et quand on te lit sur le forum, on dirait que tu n'y crois pas en fait, comme si intimement tu étais persuadé que pour toi fuckcloser une nana sargée en street/magasin/... c'était impossible. Il est peut-être là le problème : tes convictions profondes, tes croyances, ... sur la sarge en particulier et les relations homme-femme en général.
