Bonjour,
J'ai besoin de conseil de pro.
Je me suis mis sur meetic il y a trois jour pour renconter des femmes.
Moi je ne suis pas un top model
Mais contre toute attente hier, j'ai reussi a attiré l'attention d'une femme que vous classifierez de HB8.
Polonaise, brune aux yeux bleu tres beau corp, entretenu, un look, tres mignogne qui sait qu'elle plait aux hommes.
On est tout les deux sur londres, et elle a apparament apprecié mon simple message d'intro sans lui avoir envoyer de clin d'oeil ni avoir été rentre dedans.
On a ainsi discuté par messages et nos reponses s'enchainait assez rapidement avec un leger jeux de seduction.
Elle me demanda ce que j'attend des rencontres sur meetic, et J'ai joué la carte de la sincerité: j'ai repondu que je cherch l'amour mais je ne crois pas ressentir des choses par messages interposé.
Elle me repond que c'est pareil pour elke et qu'elle prefere voir les personnes en vrai pour voir si il y a une alchimie. Je lui ai donc proposer de boirre un café un soir. Elle me retorque donc qu'elle aimerai bien, mais plus aller boire un verre de vin.
Ensuite pour jouer un peu je lui ai dit que ce n'est pas par ce que l'on a un rendez vous que je n'attendrai pas ses messages.
Elle en ria et affirma.
Je lui ai donc proposé un bar sympa en centre ville de Londres avec vue panoramique sur la ville pour mardi soir.
Pour ne pas faire trop le needy, je lui ai dit que j'allais arretter la conversasion car j'avais des choses a faire(ce qui etait totalement faut).
Pas de reponse.
3 heures passe je reprend contact avec elle(elle etait toujours sur meetic)
Depuis plus de reponse.
Elle reste connecté sur meetic sans m'envoyer de message. Je doute qu'elle doit avoir des tonnes d'autres mec qui la drague vu que c'est une beautée.
Ce matin, je lui ai donc envoyé en réiterant ma proposition d'aller boire un verre. Elle me dit oui mais pas mardi car elle peut etre overbooké et qu'elle attend de voir comment va etre sa semaine avant de proposer une date?
OU AI JE MERDER?
Ai je été trop vite dans la demande d'une rencontre(un jour et une dixaine de message)
Comment recuperer le coup? Pour l'instant je la laisse souffler et je ne la harcelle pas pour ne pas faire le needy mais j'en suis un :p
Merci d'avance
Je vais copier ma discussion
Demande de date?: ou ai je merder?
Comme convenu ma discution en une journéevou j'essaie d'avoir un date.
Moi
Hello, i'm stephane and I just seen your profile.
I must confess that i fall in love of your smile and i will be please to make your acquaintance. So if you want, leave me a message.
Elle
Hi stephane, nice to hear from you. I'm glad you decided to email me rather than just send a lazy wink. So how is your week going? Anything plan for the week end?
Moi
My week was not so bad, it could be worst. And for this week end, some administrative stuff and some arrangement in my flat. Nothing "sexy". What about you?
Elle
Good week. Just a bit too cold. Relaxing weekend with xmas do tommorrow.
Well planing togo for a run at some point.
So how are you finding match?
Moi
I'm sorry to ask you this question, but what do you mean by "go for a run"? Do you mean jogging? I'm french and work in a spanish bank. Therefore my english may have some gaps ;)
I'm new here. I would like to say that i had a ton of message but itis nit true
In fact i'm sceptic about this way to meet woman. I usually prefer discuss face to face. There are more than some words.
But in my case, I don't see how to meet women. I'm living since one year in london and i'm not a man who will look for a date in a pub or in a night club.
Futhermore english women are weird for me.
What about you?
Elle
Hi stephane, the good news is that i'm not english
And yes you are right a bit about online dating site. I didn't like the idea first but kind of got me thinking it might be a chance too meet man that i'm not use to meet in normal circumstance. I'm a bit bored with all that man.
My wayof thinking is: don't waste time writing lots of message or talking on the phone, just meet first and see if there is any chemistry.
Hope you had a good day.
Ah, "go for a run" is yep jogging
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Moi
So you are not english! What a surprise.
Would you mind to told me your nationality?
As we had some mail exchanges that i appreciated, would it be strange if i propose you to share a coffe next week?
Elle
I'm polish.
Been in london for 9 years. Coffee next week sounds great ;)
Moi
Ah ah! You trick me:D
Do you have preference? Day? Time? Area?
And of couse fixing a meeting doesn't mean i don't expect some message from you;)
Elle
Of course it would be nice to keep in touch untill we meet up.
I don't mind the location. I live in....
Cofee would only work for weekends, tho cos by the time i get home weeksays is more a time for a glass of wine rather a coffee ;)
Moi
Got it, what about the paramount bar near oxford street? Let's say tuesday evening?
I really enjoy our discussion but have to go.
Plus de reponse
Relance au bout de 3h00: Justine are you still there?
J'envoi donc un message ce matin
Hi Justine,
Sorry if i upseted you yesterday but had an emergency.
Anyway, I'll be happy to meet you and have a drink. Yesterday i propose the Paramount bar . Is it too far for you? Or don't you like the bar?
Elle
Hi stephane, please don't appologise. I fell asleep, was so tired.
Just shoping online.
Paramount sounds good for me. Just need too check what my shifts are like next week. But tuesday might not be good as i always finish late on tuesday
Have a good day.
Moi
Ok, waiting for the best day for you.
Have a nice day.
Moi
Hello, i'm stephane and I just seen your profile.
I must confess that i fall in love of your smile and i will be please to make your acquaintance. So if you want, leave me a message.
Elle
Hi stephane, nice to hear from you. I'm glad you decided to email me rather than just send a lazy wink. So how is your week going? Anything plan for the week end?
Moi
My week was not so bad, it could be worst. And for this week end, some administrative stuff and some arrangement in my flat. Nothing "sexy". What about you?
Elle
Good week. Just a bit too cold. Relaxing weekend with xmas do tommorrow.
Well planing togo for a run at some point.
So how are you finding match?
Moi
I'm sorry to ask you this question, but what do you mean by "go for a run"? Do you mean jogging? I'm french and work in a spanish bank. Therefore my english may have some gaps ;)
I'm new here. I would like to say that i had a ton of message but itis nit true
In fact i'm sceptic about this way to meet woman. I usually prefer discuss face to face. There are more than some words.
But in my case, I don't see how to meet women. I'm living since one year in london and i'm not a man who will look for a date in a pub or in a night club.
Futhermore english women are weird for me.
What about you?
Elle
Hi stephane, the good news is that i'm not english
And yes you are right a bit about online dating site. I didn't like the idea first but kind of got me thinking it might be a chance too meet man that i'm not use to meet in normal circumstance. I'm a bit bored with all that man.
My wayof thinking is: don't waste time writing lots of message or talking on the phone, just meet first and see if there is any chemistry.
Hope you had a good day.
Ah, "go for a run" is yep jogging
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Moi
So you are not english! What a surprise.
Would you mind to told me your nationality?
As we had some mail exchanges that i appreciated, would it be strange if i propose you to share a coffe next week?
Elle
I'm polish.
Been in london for 9 years. Coffee next week sounds great ;)
Moi
Ah ah! You trick me:D
Do you have preference? Day? Time? Area?
And of couse fixing a meeting doesn't mean i don't expect some message from you;)
Elle
Of course it would be nice to keep in touch untill we meet up.
I don't mind the location. I live in....
Cofee would only work for weekends, tho cos by the time i get home weeksays is more a time for a glass of wine rather a coffee ;)
Moi
Got it, what about the paramount bar near oxford street? Let's say tuesday evening?
I really enjoy our discussion but have to go.
Plus de reponse
Relance au bout de 3h00: Justine are you still there?
J'envoi donc un message ce matin
Hi Justine,
Sorry if i upseted you yesterday but had an emergency.
Anyway, I'll be happy to meet you and have a drink. Yesterday i propose the Paramount bar . Is it too far for you? Or don't you like the bar?
Elle
Hi stephane, please don't appologise. I fell asleep, was so tired.
Just shoping online.
Paramount sounds good for me. Just need too check what my shifts are like next week. But tuesday might not be good as i always finish late on tuesday
Have a good day.
Moi
Ok, waiting for the best day for you.
Have a nice day.
Moi j'ai une autre question: pourquoi penses-tu avoir merdé ? Elle dit oui pour aller boire un verre, approuve le choix du bar, quel est le problème ?shadowind a écrit : OU AI JE MERDER?
Que cherche t elle exactement ?
L'amour, le confort, une double nationalité...après, cela peut être jack pot aussi : les trois à la fois.
Pourquoi pas !
Du fun, du sexe, un amant, un homme pour l'entretenir...
Crois tu qu'il soit utile de te prendre la tête pour savoir si tu as bien fait ou pas ?
Une chose est sure, il faut qu'elle soit dans le même trip que toi déjà !
Soit elle te retrouve pour un café ou autre, soit tu passes à autre chose.
Je te souhaite plein de bonnes choses,
Bridget.
L'amour, le confort, une double nationalité...après, cela peut être jack pot aussi : les trois à la fois.
Pourquoi pas !
Du fun, du sexe, un amant, un homme pour l'entretenir...
Crois tu qu'il soit utile de te prendre la tête pour savoir si tu as bien fait ou pas ?
Une chose est sure, il faut qu'elle soit dans le même trip que toi déjà !
Soit elle te retrouve pour un café ou autre, soit tu passes à autre chose.
Je te souhaite plein de bonnes choses,
Bridget.
Le score de cet utilisateur est négatif ce qui veut dire que ses messages sont globalement jugés problématiques par les autres utilisateurs.
Tu précises pas combien de temps tu as mis pour lui proposer de boire un verre ? le 1er jour ? 3 à 4 jours plus tard ? 1 mois plus tard ?