Doc Love et la drague online.

[Zucchero]

Vu à l'adresse http://uk.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300 ... xpert.html
Je vous mets le texte en Anglais, en attendant d'avoir le temps (ou que quelqu'un ait le temps ici) de le traduire.
Le premier paragraphe opère une comparaison avec d'autres types de fields. Ensuite, il y a le but de la drague online et, succintement, la manière de procéder.

Voilà la vérité à propos des bars et des clubs : ce n'est pas le meilleur endroit pour rencontrer des femmes. C'est trop sombre, il y a trop de fumée, trop d'alcool qui circule, notamment quand les gens ont tendance à raconter des mensonges. Si vous allez dans un club, vous voulez y être avec des potes, vous faire plaisir en parlant du bon vieux temps, de la boxe, des affaires, et bien sur, des femmes. Mais s'il vous arrive d'aborder quelqu'un que vous avez maté dans un bar ou un club, vous devez lui demander de danser. Alors n'y allez pas en espérant rencontrer Miss Right. Les chances d'y parvenir sont minces.

Jared, online is where the dating game is these days, make no mistake about it, and in front of the terminal screen is where you have to be. Even my Uncle Jethro Love says "Boy, you's dead in the water with the girls without your Macintosh!". But before you log on, you have to be prepared and you have to have a very strict game plan.

And the aim of this plan is to get the girl through the door of Starbucks. There you are at home, pal, with just your laptop and no girlfriend, and your goal is to eventually say: "Caprice, very nice to meet you! Have a seat."

When she arrives, you buy her a Mocha Valencia and you talk for 45 minutes. Afterwards, you walk her out to her car and she says, "Wow, Jared, I had a nice time! Please give me a call and we'll get together again." Then she hugs you, gets into her car and drives away. Guys, if we're going to sell ourselves, we have to get the buyer in front of us for 45 minutes at Starbucks.

GETTING THE DATE

So here's what you say when you're at the keyboard. Since the ladies always ask what you're looking for, you're going to tell them, "I'm looking for a Self-Reliant, Flexible Giver who will laugh at my corny jokes. Let's meet at Starbucks and see if I can make you giggle." There's your icebreaker.

You want a blueprint? A piece of cake. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love says, "The point is to make 'em laugh and tell 'em nothin'." If you get a positive response on Match.com -- a wink -- toss into your e-mail that you're a busy guy and that you have tons of fun on the weekends. In your second paragraph, keep on keeping it light. Does she like to dance? Does she like to travel to Vegas or New York? What babe doesn't like to dance or go places? Then ask her about Match.com to remind her that you don't want to just be her e-mail "buddy."

INTERNET DATING IS EASY

Jared, you're afraid of the wrong things. The fact is that it's a lot easier to deal with a woman when you can't see her. You're most definitely not at a disadvantage, because on the Internet you can check out up to 200 pictures within a half-hour. Then you pare it down to 45 or so, and out of that 45 you give the best ones a wink. You're going to dance back and forth with a few e-mails, then you will go in for the home phone number.

And she's going to say (hopefully), "Here it is," or "I'll give it to you when we meet." Then you have to get her to show up for her coffee. Make sure you give her the Starbucks telephone number and detailed directions, and that the place has plenty of parking because a lot of these girls won't show if they have the slightest excuse.

As far as her onscreen name goes, if she wants to call herself "Anita The Hun," that's her right. You'll get her real name if she's really interested.

GET THAT COFFEE DATE

So to sum it up, break the ice, exchange e-mails, then ask for the home phone number and a 45-minute date at Starbucks. Of course you can't completely gauge a woman's Interest Level over a computer, but to you Psych majors, the more detailed her responses are to your e-mails, the easier she makes it for you to contact her in person. And the more questions she asks you, you can bet her Interest Level is clinically alive.

Remember: Some women will meet a guy for coffee. When she walks in the door, you'll witness her female presence in the flesh. Then you'll sit down with her for a chat, and it'll be easy to assess whether she likes you or thinks you're the worst thing since Osama Bin Laden.

Qu'en pensez-vous ?

[flonaish]

En fait, Il dit juste "hey Guy, les rencontres internet, c'est cool!"

et propose une mauvaises idée pour casser la glace, deux ou trois banalités pour mettre dans un email et ressembler au mec lambda qui parle de meetic ou match.com.

la seule idée applicable c est qu il faut les faire rire et ne pas trop vous dévoiler
mais ca on le savait deja.

Quant a aller á une date sans avoir son numero de télephone, c'est du lapin assuré á plus de 50%...

[SoCal]

Si tu avais suivi le workshop, tu saurais qu'il ne faut jamais aborder une fille, tu risquerais de la closer, c'est tres mal en plus c'est macho. Respectes la fille, offre lui des fleurs en chocolat
Ton instructeur devoue

SoCal

[blam!]

Si tu avais suivi le workshop, tu saurais qu'il ne faut jamais aborder une fille, tu risquerais de la closer, c'est tres mal en plus c'est macho. Respectes la fille, offre lui des fleurs en chocolat
Ton instructeur devoue

Moi je l'aurais acheté avec des chips et du coca et un paquet de fruitella

Si tu as du chocolat à conseiler, dis le moi (du chocolat pour m'acheter moi, comme ça je m'acheterai pour tester l'effet)

<---Adev---> Même si cette méthode est un peu light , il n'y a pas raison à s'acharner. D'ailleurs , je vous rappelle qu'il existe une section appropriée pour vos délires. Je surveille ce topic !!!

[gedrin]

tu surveilles encore ce topic ?

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