Hey hey hey! My first LR on my lair!
I'm pretty happy about it, since as I told Yudini, I regretted not having fucked the other girl last time in DVD bang, for lack of condoms.
Didn't make the same mistake twice!
Anyway, I met Rina through KCupid where I MSNclosed her after a quick chat. The MSN went on pretty well. I knew she was attracted, so I decided to apply RedPoleQ's advice to qualify and screen her as fast as possible. I asked her questioned, and rewarded her for the behavior I liked. I figured out I couldn't try to see her straight away, and evaluated I needed three MSN conversations before asking her out, in order to set up comfort. It's not an absolute rule, but I figured out she was the type of girl who needed a lot of comfort before anything else. So at the third conversation, I numclosed her and set up a date.
So the date took place yesterday. She arrived on time, and as I saw on her pictures, she was really cute, with a petite ex-ballet dancer body. Yummy. I kinoed her straight away, and noticed she was responding well. Good point. I took her to a chicha place I like in Hongdae. The place is very intimistic, maybe a little too much for a first date, I thought when I entered. Once inside, she refused to sit next to me, and went to the opposite. So you want to play?
I continued qualifying, touching her hand, and maintaining very strong EC(boy, she was tough). I noticed that it's good to have neutral talk when you have strong EC, because you are focused on what's happening, and not n the conversation. We "naturally" started moving closer. At the end, we were sharing the same drink, the same chicha, and she was in my arms. I suggested we moved to DVD(Snek, you pervert) to see Aladdin(I had used a routine where I told her I used to be in love with Princess Jasmine lol). She refused, but suggested noraebang. I said OK, and bounced her.
At this point
It was obviously on, I just needed to escalate smartly. Also, she was shit-testing a lot, like "How many girlfriends do you have?", "What do you think of me?", etc.
So we go in the noraebang, still hugging. We start singing, she dances for me. Kino, kino, kino, but still no room for a kiss. We decide to sing the Aladdin song, and bingo: she wants to see the movie. So we go for DVD but fuck! It's full. We go to another one, and it doesn't have Aladdin. I fear it might be a mood killer, so I suggest a few other ones, but she doesn't want them. Finally, she suggests a romantic movie, I say OK.
We go in, and at this point, I'm in the "Let's have sex like the pigs we are" frame. Bad idea. She turns her back to me, though still remaining in my arms. OK, change tactics. I turn my frame to "boyfriend and girlfriend just seeing a movie together". She opens up, and at some point, I kiss her. She doesn't give my kiss back, but just doesn't move. I continue kissing, and she finally opens her mouth. I start touching her, and at some point, she lays my hand on her tit. I take her topp and her bra off, and take my shirt off too. Very good making out, she reaches for my dick with her hand, I unbutton her jean's, and have a harder time with the panties . But finally, it comes off. I touch her intimately, finger her, while she rubs my cock. I take the condom out of my jeans without her noticing, and puts without saying anything, still kissing her(tough one!). I face a little LMR, so I go back to the top of her body, before going down again, and there you go! All the way, she was totally passive, so I'm glad I just pushed myself to go further and further.
After that, she shit-tests again :"Do you do this with all the girls?". I answer:"Only those I like.", and move her to Burger King to set up more comfort and avoid buyer's remorse later(hey, i wanna fuck her again!). She says she has to go soon. We go inside, eat, talk, and then, when I say "Let's go", she says "Just 5 more minutes!". Damn, she's into me. I suggest we go to her place, but she lives with her grandma , and my dorm has cameras. So I let her go to the subway, after she asked me to call her so we can meet again.
Impressions:
-I'm getting better at kino, definitely, and at pushing things, though I need to get better, still.
-Logistics are important, and Sinchon is an awesome place for fucking.
-I'm getting real good at handling shit-tests. I pass most of them easily now.
-Fucking a girl on the first date is not science-fiction! It's important concerning my limiting beliefs.
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