Damn, I'm posting little these days. I definitely hate final exams period.
Anyway, I was trying to schedule a day3 with HB9MonkeyGirl, whom I was pretty close from fucking last time on day2. I lacked persistence and fell into a huge trap. She was not a virgin, as she confessed later, she just felt like things were going too fast. This, coupled to a lot of dirty talk from my part(I gotta calm down a little with that) led me to trigger strong ASD, so much she didn't want to see me yesterday. Well she wanted, but she felt like a slut about it. So I decided to change her emotional state, talked about crazy stuff, made future projections, made her recall childhood memories, condition her to have a really good time, all this through MSN. I also continued qualifying. She was OK to see me, but not as late as I wanted, so I pulled my Joker card: I told her I was going in two weeks, and as RedPoleQ had told me on another report, it led her to accept, since her reputation would be safe with me going soon.
As I write this, I'm happy to see that I could actually plan the thing and get it to work.
Well, we met in Myeong Dong, and went to eat to a Dongkatsu place, as I had projected. The food was good, but the conversation was a little uneasy. I didn't really mind: I figured out it would loosen up after a little bounce and some kino escalating. It did. When we finished, we went out for a walk, before taking the subway to the Han River, as planned. I figured out we'd go there before going at her place, because it's a romantic, couple-style place, which shows that I appreciate her personnality too. And it worked well: as soon as we arrived, we went to the little park, sat on the grass(and on my jacket: thanks UNIQLO for the inexpensive 20 000 won waterproof jacket) and started kissing. Some people passed by occasionnally, but no problem. Then, something crazy happened.
A couple came out of the bushes. We hadn't seen them at all, and we realized this bush was nt as compact as it seemed. We penetrated inside, and there was actually a pretty wide open space with
absolutely no fucking way for the people outside to see anything. We made out a lot, I caressed her cunt, but we didn't have a mattress, so it was very uncomfortable. We agreed to come back to this spot another time before I go, with a mattress. We went to sit on the river side. Really nice and romantic, kissing was getting really intense. She mentionned one of her legs was itching(aaaah, wildlife), I told her it would be better with a nice hot shower, and that I could even help her. She suggested we took a shower together. After twenty more minutes, we went to her place.
First thing we did was taking a shower: it was my first shower with a girl, and it was awesome. We didn't fuck inside(my condoms were in the room), but I teased her enough to eliminate any LMR. And LMR, there was none. We went to her room, and I put some lotion over her naked body. Then, we continued making out in her bed, and I put the condom on. She was wet, but not so much, and my penis was hurting her. We decided to use the body lotion as lube( ;D), and continued fucking with her on top. At some point, I started playing with her anus, and noticed she liked it. Then, I said "Turn around" thinking about being on top. She bent over, and we continued fucking. But it felt strange. A quick examination with my finger showed me that I was not in her vagina, but in her anus.
First anal sex ever, and realizing it made me cum in thirty fucking seconds, but it was cool.
After that, we went to sleep, and when we woke up, we had sex again. I left the place at nine in the morning because of these fucking finals. On the way home, she texted me to tell me she had really enjyed our time together.
I love this fucking Game.
Five things I did well:
-Planning and logistics! I couldn't have been any smoother.
-Being assertive during sex, in spite of my small experience.
-Appreciate her for what she is, which led me to sex.
-Being adventurous. I can tell this outdoors spot really turned her on.
-Being comfortable with the whole process.
Five things I will improve on:
-Be more subtle with sex talk. Basically, I talk about something wild as a joke, she agrees as a joke, I think it's serious and try to get somehow a verbal comittment that we will do it beforehands. It turns girls off. Just imply.
-Continue taking the lead.
-Working with her emotions.
-Getting even more comfortable with spending non-sexual time together.
-Continue getting sexual experience.
Five things I noticed:
-Spending non-sexual time together builds up sexual tension. Talking about something once before going for it diminishes LMR.
-Escalating is a fucking key.
-It's easy to get a girl to do naughty stuff. After anal sex, I told her she was naughty, and she replied "I thought you liked naughty girls". That's when I saw my qualification was getting good.
-Appreciating her madonna side is as important as qualifying.
-Most of all, I realize my bootcamp made me leap months ahead. Three days after my bootcamp, I had Day1 and kclosed. Five days after, I got Handjob. And ten days after my bootcamp, I fclose this hot girl on day 3, getting her to do what I want. Most of all, I realize I was comfortable with the whole process. This bootcamp really rewired my brain the right way. Thanks again, RedPoleQ and Kid44.
Temperance