J'vais essayer de la traduire, malgré mon anglais bancal
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Après avoir parlé quelques minutes à une femme, je lui dis souvent quelquechose comme
"Bon,c'était agréable de t'avoir rencontré, mais j'ai un rendez vous avec des amis".
Généralement elle ne sait pas trop quoi faire, habitué à être collée par des boulets. Mais, alors que je me retourne pour m'éloigner je rajoute
"au fait, t'as une adresse mail ?"
Si elle réponds positivement, je lui prète mon bloc note et un stylo afin qu'elle écrive son adresse dessus. (C'est excellent comme d'un simple "oui" qu'elles donnent, on peut aussi obtenir l'adresse en question)
Alors j'ajoute
"tu peux écrire ton numéro aussi, en dessous ?"
Quand vous demandez l'email, le risque est très faible pour elle… donc elle se dit "bon ok, j'peux le faire ça" … et ensuite, alors qu'elle est en train d'écrire, je demande le numéro, ce qui parait bien plus naturel.
Si elle réponds non à ma première question, je la joue C&F en lui répondant
"ok... et sinon t'as l'électricité quand même ? Bon ok, je préfère les emails, mais je prendrai ton numéro de tel [...] "
Pendant qu'elle écrit, je lui demande
"c'est un numéro que tu utilises régulièrement ? Alleeez écrit ton vrai numéro je t'apellerai qu'une quinzaine de fois par jour "
Etc.
Note : gardez toujours un bloc note et un beau stylo sur vous
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Bon j'avoue ma traduction est à chier, et j'ai un peu rogner sur les bords donc voilà l'original, si vous avez + de temps.
Bon en gros j'aimerai savoir ce que vous en pensez, je trouve ça pas mal comme astuce et ça m'étonne que personne en ai encore parlé, vu que pas mal de monde a lu ce bouquin.Getting Phone Numbers And Email Addresses
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers.
I've found that email addresses are far better.
Let me explain.
I perfected the art of getting phone numbers a couple of years ago.
If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about
a minute. I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this
that numbers don’t equal success.
You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their
phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call
them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But
the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal
experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person.
When you call a woman for the first time, they'll often start acting
stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.
I've found that getting an email address is not only easier, but it
gets more positive responses later on.
It's almost like women appreciate it that you've taken the time to
think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them.
The other benefit of email is that it can be written and answered
anytime.
If you call, you have to actually reach them.
But an email can be answered anytime.
And I've found that emails are answered far more often than
voicemail messages.
Here's the how to:
After I’ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I’ll often say
something like “Well, it was nice meeting you. I’m going to get back to
my friends.” They usually don’t know what to do, as they’re used to
guys clinging. Then, just as I’m turning to walk away… and we kind of
disconnect… I turn back and say “Do you have email?”
If they say yes, I take out a pen and paper and have them write it
down. (This is great, as I just treat the ‘yes’ that they give me as a
yes to get it from them as well. And they’ve ALL gone along with it so
far) Then I say “Write your number down there too.” I won’t go into all
of it, but this move is a powerhouse. When you ask for email, it’s very
low risk for them… so they think “Fine, I’ll do that”… and then when
they’re already writing, I get the phone number too… which is more
natural.
If they say no, then I bust on them and say “Well, do you have
electricity?” Then I say “Well, OK then… I like email better, but I’ll take
your regular phone number… it’s so damn hard to reach people on the
phone these days.”
I hope you get what just happened… OK, then, as they’re writing I
say “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If not, then I say
“Look, write your real number down… it’s going to be OK, I’ll only call
you nine times a day.” They laugh, and give me their real number.
Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. Many guys say "But what
do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never
had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows
why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why
you asked. Just assume that this is the case.
If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm
way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.
Note: Carry a pen on you at all times.
Quelqu'un a déjà essayé ?
