Pour celles et ceux qui veulent discuter et demander des conseils rencontres et séduction; comment faire avec cette fille ou ce mec; et plus généralement, comment pécho / trouver l'amour à l'ère du swipe left, notamment quand on est ni mannequin, ni un ninja de la drague.
Mystery, son premier post, 1998 a écrit :
The Greatest ART of Them ALL!
I am a pick-up artist.
I'm not a player, but I have devoted a large portion of my time to the art of seduction. I have read many books, I dress cool, have many girlfriends and believe to be rather charming at times. However, I feel very much alone in this art. My friends do not enjoy the 'chase' at all. I attempt to advise them on the reasoning behind the techniques but they just freeze up. I had a tough time going to grips that I am what I just said I am. Why? Well, saying you are one will not increase your chances of getting a woman attracted to you. Truth is though, I have had sex with 56 girls so far (well less, but I include oral sex and other such pleasures as sexual - you know, if you don't have condoms you can always find other ways to please eachother) and many have been beautiful. I mean 10s! I am very good at what I do. With the risk of sounding arrogant, I am the best pick-up artist I've ever met

It IS an art. I worked very hard to get good. There are many RULES I may drop here on NG. Please take them only as considerations. They are MY RULES and they have helped me greatly.
My point? I wish I knew other men like myself who enjoy picking up women. For the sport. I enjoy friendly challenges but my friends have all conceded defeat. They enjoy coming out with me for the entertainment value but when they have the opportunity to approach a woman, they freeze up. Its not all that fun. I enjoy their company but cannot LEARN from them. I honestly feel like I am a MASTER at this ... not because I can get any woman (that is
not possible when so many variables are outside of my influence) but because he seduction is so controlled and smooth (not sleezy but rather natural). have considered writing a book on it. Thing is, I have made notes on my irls issues on a computer scheduler after every time I went out and I built up a good outline to say the least. My 'approach' for the book would be different than the other books in that there is a natural FLOW that takes place. I wrote the stuff more for ME, so I really dont have an interest in writing a book for others. I will however, impart some minor pearls of wisdom from time to time here. I hope I may converse with other artists who truly enjoy the game.
It is a very simple system really
1. find
2. meet
3. attract
4. close
Say it with me, find, meet, attract, close. Find, meet, attract, close.
The details and subtilties however are the meat of the system.
Mystery
Notes et commentaires reçus par ce post :- [+1] Merci ! :) par Laurier