J'ai réfléchis et je participe
Moi aussi je coince grave ! J'essaye de progresser mes c'est très difficile d'être TOUT LE TEMPS consistant ( études , taff , problemes , motivation ..).
Bref je fais mon bonhomme de chemin et je m'améliore tout doucement certes , mais je m'améliore.
1) Savoir où on en est
*Dans la vie (lifestyle , passion , statuts …)
*Dans le pickup : taux d’approche / taux de réussite
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Le chemin 
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Become A PUA
The natural progression from AFC to MPUA will usually follow these steps depending on pre-existing skills and how you direct your energy.
Game improvement from practice:
1. Nothing. Nada
2. Can date within social circle when girl makes it VERY obvious.Ê Physical escalation slow.Ê Boring dates
3. Gets the guts to approach in clubs after long time staring at girl giving him IOIs, low success rate
4. Learns how to approach easy sets in a club and get occasional n-close, but most stale out before then and most numbers flake
5. Can get into comfort on date.Ê Good rapport but sometimes run out of things to say.Ê No idea how to escalate.Ê Miss lots of opportunities
6. Can approach a bit more, but still with nerves that they can see.Ê No kino, go for kisses etc awkwardly on date 3 or something
7. Can approach cold and gain interest and establish rapport.Ê Cannot isolate or handle a group. No game for a noisy club.Ê Can only number close or occasional k-close on a first meeting
8. Can do quite good day-approaches with some success
9. Can approach and isolate with a wing.Ê Can get rapport, and can use basic kino and k-close
10. Can isolate and escalate kino but too slowly, can get k-close and f-close with easier targets. (At this point you can quit and already be better than 99% and have this area handled enough for it not to be a worry any more)
11. Dance floor game - approach, escalate, extract.Ê In 2 minutes
12. Can f-close easier targets but useless on day 2 when energy level drops - cannot ramp it back up
13. Master day 2 game (80%+ f-close rate)
14. Can handle a group approach and isolate without a wing. Rarely blown-out.
15. Learn non-verbal pick-up
16. Learn how to lead, escalate, quickly isolate
17. Able to open, build comfort, escalate, extract, close in any environment including daytime same day f-close
18. Threesomes, women chasing you, 5 in a week, etc etc.Ê You made it!
19. Superhero PUA, you give off an energy that women find irresistible and you only have to look at them
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2) Savoir ce que tu veux et se fixer des objectifs
*Tes objectifs dans la vie.
*Tes objectifs dans la sarge.
3) Créer un plan pour le succès
*Des affirmations pour l’état d’esprit ( Swinggcat , RJ
les clés du succès)
*Avoir un gameplan très simple :
Le game plan doit juste fournir un objectif très simple et plutôt lointain pour orienter le PU.
Le flow
_ L’état d’esprit à avoir entre chaque phase ( L’ISP de Lovesystem ,The Code de VinDiCarlo , Arise , Gunwitch , RSD ... )
_Quelques routines
4) Passer à l'action
*Aller sur le field
* Motivation , frame
5)Le feedback de toutes tes interactions et les points à améliorer
*Notes manuscrites de ce qui a très bien marché, ou on peut mieux faire etc..
*Les points à progresser
The common sticking points are
1. Fear of the approach.
2. Run out of things to say and get stuck conversationally.
3. Get into a long conversation and don’t know how to close.
4. Get numbers but they flake.
5. Get dates and girls don’t want to see them again after first one.
6. Don’t know how to escalate physically.
7. Girls just want to be friends.
And the answers to these are:
1. Desensitisation, giving content, confidence boosting, framing the
situation differently, motivation strategies.
2. Impro exercises and giving content.
3. Verbally leading into a number or kiss close.
4. Solid number closing, text game, phone game.
5. Rapport, day-2 system, status.
6. Sexual tension, verbal and non-verbal sexual escalation.
7. Sexual escalation, prizing.
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* Améliorer le gameplan en conséquence
6) Répéter les étapes
3) , 4) et 5) pour atteindre les objectifs 2)
Voila quelques pistes de réflexion tirer de mes lectures et de me mon modeste parcours...
Des bootcamp et des workshop peuvent aider .
Sinon le développement perso et l'autocoaching sont
pour moi la voie pour devenir Naturel ! (
et non pas UN naturel )
